A dear friend of mine has posted an emotionally-charged and thought-provoking entry to his blog. I met "Pomoprophet" during my five years in "ex-gay" reorientation therapy--at the time both of us were convinced that gay relationships were immoral and were trying our best to become heterosexuals.
Time, experience, and thought has brought me to a different perspective. Pomo is unsure at the moment, but he is seriously rethinking his moral convictions. He has written a blog entry about the "costs" he would incur if he does come out as gay and begin seeking a life partner. He is acutely aware of the relationships he would lose among his evangelical Christian friends and family.
I encourage you to read his blog entry and the comments that follow. Quite a few gay Christians have weighed in with their thoughts and lessons learned when they came out. Tough stuff. Good stuff.